Dr. Reisman: Start documenting the abuse. Write everything down. Photograph your injuries. Keep doctor reports. That could be important in a custody battle, and men like your husband usually do go for custody. He has the resources, the money, the contacts. Most importantly, he has the ego to see this through. Celeste: I don't understand why you're being such an alarmist right now. Dr. Reisman: Because I'm alarmed.